Waiting Wives’ Club
Waiting Wives’ Club
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As the lights were going out all across our troubled land
The callup took the finest of our young men out of reach
As our stalwart British tommies laboured through the desert sand
Along came Johnny the Canuck to step into the breach.
They courted us with dances, with movies, and with flowers
Their uniforms and accents and the charming things they’d say
So in weeks or even days or sometimes even only hours
We found ourselves engaged, or even in a family way.
Our fathers say he’s probably got another wife back home
Our brothers talk of Indians and houses made of ice
Our mothers say that we’ll be left to raise our babes alone
Our sisters wish he’d bring along another bloke that’s nice.
So we saved up all our coupons for a white dress and a cake
The army gave its blessing and we set a wedding date
For honeymoons our lads were given one or two weeks break
They they went back to their duty, and we began to wait.
It might be any day, and it might not be for years
That word will come, to London we must go
We’ll kiss our friends and family, and we’ll try to hide our tears
As we bid farewell to all we love and know
Though the good ships that will carry us across the ocean wide
May bring us to our lovers true and kind
The fine new homes we’re making over on the other side
Will never be the ones we’ve left behind.
We formed a Waiting Wives’ Club and we meet down at the Y
To learn the tricks and customs of our new Canadian life
To shop by mail and bake by fire are things we’ll have to try
An outhouse and a water pump, and the work of a farmer’s wife.
It’s a hard life in the colonies, is what our parents say
But when we’re in our husbands’ arms, we’re sure ‘twill be alright
There’ll be banana splits, and eggs, and white bread every day
No bombing raids or shelters, and the lights stay on all night.
And it’s time our little ones saw their daddies once again
Their foreign grannies write to say they’re dying to meet them too
It’s hard being always ready to go, and always wondering when
And wondering what our lives will hold in a country far and new.
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•Lyrics and music © 2003
•Based on the experiences of British war brides of Canadian soldiers during WWII
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This is based on the 1992 book "Promise You'll Take Care of my Daughter" by Ben Wicks, which is an oral history of many of the British war brides who married Canadian soldiers during WWII. I included some of the elements which turned up repeatedly in different girls' stories.
The Canadian government organized transportation on returning troopships for the brides, who were given just two days' notice to say their farewells and report to a hostel in London. In the meantime, many of them participated in clubs to get to know each other and learn about Canadian culture; the "Waiting Wives' Club" was one of these groups.
Note that the chorus appears only where indicated, not after every verse.